Your True Name
            by Lunaea Weatherstone

            Names hold power. At birth, we are given the names our parents chose for us as
            expressions of their own dreams of what we might become. Beautiful names, strong
            names, names that honor ancestors, names that made our parents smile. We grow
            into our names over time -- modify them, adapt them to our changing circumstances
            and values. One woman may take her husband's name at marriage, making a family
            name from an individual one. Some of us change our names entirely, moving perhaps
            from maiden-name to mother-name, from mother to crone. Betsy leaves her
            child-name behind and becomes Elizabeth when she bears a child herself. Laura
            reclaims her mother's name at midlife and becomes Laura Janesdaughter. Joanne
            becomes Joanna as her lover's gentle voice adds the softening syllable at the end.

            To discover a person's "true name" is the stuff of myth and fairy tale. In knowing
            what and how a person's soul is called, one may fully understand the underpinnings
            of his or her power. Used for good, this magical name-knowing allows the seeker to
            recognize helpers, teachers and soul-companions along the quest. Finding the true
            name of a person, place or thing is not something to be taken lightly. Naming your
            home, for example, is a statement of some intention or quality nurtured there. My
            own house, Badgers End, is a cozy den filled with objects that make me feel secure,
            a place where I burrow in, becoming perhaps a bit snarly if poked out. Ceremonial
            naming brings life to seemingly inanimate objects, transforms them into sacred tools.
            A sword is just a sword, but Excalibur! Ahhh! A legend is born.

            Likewise, in the Celtic bardic tradition, naming is not merely the act of pointing to an
            object and saying, "Tree," or holding out your hand and saying, "Hi, I'm Merlyn."
            Bards create a poetic interpretation of their names, which can be used as prayer,
            meditation, affirmation or spell. Such a rune of naming can be used to enlighten or
            (conversely) confound those to whom it is spoken. Writing a ceremonial name for
            yourself is a wonderful way to celebrate who you are now, who you have been,
            who you hope to become.

            There are many forms such a ceremonial name can take. A bard might sing his/her
            poem of naming as both introduction and riddle, playing with double meanings,
            revealing secrets only to those who understand the metaphors used. A famous
            example is the name-poem attributed to the Welsh bard Taliesin, a fragment of which is:

            I have been a narrow sword,
            A drop in the air,
            A shining bright star,
            A letter among words
            In the book of origins.
            I have been lanternlight
            For a year and a day,
            I have been a bridge
            Spanning threescore rivers…

            Another approach is the repetitive style of titles given to Mary,
            read as loving invocation and litany:

            Thou art the river of grace,
            Thou art the wellspring of salvation,
            Thou art the garden and the paradise of the virgins,
            Thou art the star of morning,
            Thou art the star of watching,
            Thou art the star of the ocean great,
            Thou art the corn of the land,
            Thou art the treasure of the sea,
            The wished-for visitant of the homes of the world,
            Thou art the vessel of fullness,
            Thou art the cup of wisdom…

            Here's part of an Irish invocation in praise of the virtues of the saint and
            goddess Brigid, and the things that fall under her care - the home,
            the hearthfire and the ways of women:

            Brigid of the mantles,
            Brigid of the peat-fires,
            Brigid of the twining hair,
            Brigid of the augury,
            Brigid of the white feet,
            Brigid of calmness,
            Brigid, woman-helper,
            Brigid, woman mild.

            Shekhinah Mountainwater suggests that in creating a magical name poem you use names
            you once had that still suit you, qualities and connections you wish to affirm, Goddesses
            you wish to bless you, and so on. She made hers like this:

            Shekhinah, Natasha, Ebony
            She of the mountain waters
            Daughter of Frances
            Granddaughter of Rebecca
            Mother of Freya and Frey
            Ondine Marina, Mermaid of the Deep
            Dweller by the Silver Lake
            Friend of the Elves and Fairies
            Companion of Cats
            Keeper of Hecate's Cave
            Maker of Magic
            Lover of the Earth and Sea
            Priestess of the Sacred Well
            Channel of the Muse
            Singer of Spells
            Weaver of Destiny
            [used with permission from Ariadne's Thread]

            Your ceremonial title can be read aloud on special occasions, whenever you feel
            you need to remember who you are, even as a daily affirmation at your altar. Make
            it as long as you like. Don't be modest! Step into your Goddess-self and touch on
            everything you feel makes you who you are. This ceremonial name-poem will change
            and grow, be edited and added to throughout your life. Here is an excerpt from a
            sister-priestess's ceremonial self-naming:

            She who finds comfort when her belly is upon the warm Earth, as a snake
            She who shares the awareness and grace of a deer
            She who is a mother to cats and shares with them a cougar's soul
            She who is guarded by the Great Bear and beloved by the heavens…
            Our Lady of the Clipboard
            She who understands and plans
            She who breathes in wisdom and speaks so that others may hear
            Teacher, student, mentor, facilitator, friend…
            I am a bit of moonlight. I am a piece of the web. I am a part of the world soul…

            You get the idea. Begin by writing down attributes you would share if you wanted
            someone to know you very well, know your deepest soul. (But remember, no one
            needs to ever hear or read this name.) Proclaim your most powerful self, whisper
            of your most vulnerable self, delve into the mysteries of your psyche and give them
            a name. Incorporate symbols that speak to you, astrological lore, alphabetical plays
            on the letters of your name, poetic metaphors for your life experiences. For example, if
            you have three sons, you could express this in many ways:

            In the Marian style: Holy Mother of Many Sons…

            In the Celtic/bardic style: I am the Birthgiver of sons, three times have I delivered…

            In the mystical style: From my womb spills forth three sweet fruits…

            and so on.

            Other things you may wish to include in your name-spell are spiritual turning points,
            times that shaped you for ill as well as good, challenges you have faced, ways you
            have survived. You may wish to give name to your shadow self, your anger, your fears,
            your temper, your failings and faults as well as your skills and strengths. These are all
            part of you, and may need naming as part of healing.

            When you have finished your name-poem, be sure to read it aloud, to yourself at least.
            This is a powerful exercise to do in a group as well, and allows a format for glimpsing
            the inner workings of each other in a way that may not be easy in mundane expression.
            And as I said when I wrote out the instructions for my priestess circle, "If you want to
            shout your name poem aloud in a crowded restaurant, we will of course support you
            in that affirmation of your selfhood." (No one opted for this, by the way.) Have fun with
            it, let the words pour from you, don't edit yourself too much, and know there is no way
            to do this wrong. I close with my own name-poem, written in the Celtic bardic style:

            Storm caller
            I hear the song of the misty hills
            I hear the song of the cold black seas
            I feel longing that never ceases
            Water of the ninth wave shall quench my thirst

            I am a hermit's anchorage, secret
            A luminous mind, knowing much
            A seeker of dark wisdom
            A harpstring, vibrating
            Mine is the eloquence of the bard

            Beware of sorceresses, for they are quick to anger
            Quick of wit and quick of judgment
            I am she of the six opinions
            I am she who stirs the cauldron
            She who holds the Stone of Truth

            Oak and mistletoe wear I, the druid's sign
            The triple moon of the priestess
            I know the lore of tree and stone
            I know the power of words
            And the silence in which magic is born

            I am the opener of the gate
            I am the badger in its sett
            I am the owl, ever watchful
            First into battle, the raven's cry
            And at Brigid's forge I temper my blade

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